2009/01/22
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Why do I somehow feel she deserves to be treated better? Sure, when his mood is good, he brings her to eat, he shops with her, he hugs her to sleep...
But when he doesn't feel like it, and she tells him she's hungry, he frowns, turns away, flicks the blanket to cover himself...
And when she pesters n presses further, he gets up in a sudden irritated movement, just pulls on his pants n shirt, n asks "What do you want to eat?" demandingly....
She hardly complains when he wakes her...almost never complains...n allows him to drag her out of bed, smiling...
She follows wherever he wants to go, happily...
Anniversaries, birthdays, important dates to remember, sure, guys forget, but let her know that somehow these dates matter...let her know that u r at least trying...
She just bought him an expensive shirt for his birthday, and she has bought him an expensive wallet for their anniversary. She had also bought an expensive camera for him for their first Christmas together...as well as bought a nice resort stay his first bday spent together...
No, she's not materialistic. She hasn't even bought a single branded item for herself the last 2 years. The expensive wallet she owns is a gift, from her mother she loves very much...
She just wants to feel pampered...
Not time n again...hear that somehow...he doesn't want to giro his bills because he is worried that he has insufficient money to spend...
She just wants to feel pampered...n loved properly...not subject to his good or bad days...
I don't want to feel like she deserves better....but why does she feel this way? Time and again she's frustrated...
I tell her it will pass....like it always does...
It comes back, but it will always pass...
Right?
I feel like pampering this girl the way she should be pampered...after all, a girl's needs should always come first. =D
Girl, I love you~
Posted by the babe @ 1:19 PM
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